10:22 PM
so here we are, my boyfriend jason and i, enjoying a good day post fight, when suddenly
we come into discussion about adding his crazy ex( he said it, not me) on facebook. i am all for it-being the bigger person and all. he vehemently refuses- saying she's crazy and all. since its post fight, i get my way and add her up- again for bigger person sake, and the next thing that transpired was the freakiest/ most hilarious/ weirdest/ pathetic thing ever ! (depends on how you look at it i guess). i am documenting it for the fond memories and also in the event that if something mysteriously happens to jason, the world (at least the part of the world who reads my blog) can point their finger on a possible suspect.(maybe im the one who is
the next things i will post are the facebook wall comments that transpired between jason (my boyfriend) and amanda bottomley (the ex)
i would like to hear your thoughts on it. anyway, here goes nothing:
(23:25:54) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 7:18pmhello stranger! go into hiding did we? =P
(23:26:00) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 8:21pmYes i did...
(23:26:04) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 8:26pmawwww..why? you were fun when you werent a hermit!
so...gimme a little life story since the last time i saw you
(23:26:09) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 8:52pmI havn't been hiding, I have been working, uni and going overseas to the Philippines to see
my gf.
(23:26:14) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 9:15pmthat doesnt sound like much to have done in 2 years!
(23:26:19) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 9:42pmHuh?! I'm sorry, I didnt know I was required to report every single details that transpired in
my life in the past 2 year. I guess I've been too busy actually living life to report about it... My bad...
(23:26:25) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 9:46pmhad a bad day did we jase?
fine...go on not talking to me if you really want, see if i care =P
(23:26:29) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 9:50pmYeah... up until around 5:18pm...
(23:26:34) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 9:52pmit just went down hill from then... i wonder what happened?
(23:26:43) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 9:53pmhug?
(23:26:48) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 10:00pmcan i take a reincheck?
(23:26:53) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 10:07pmthat bad hey =( sorry to hear it
keep it for later, you can get more whenever you want..they're fun to give out
(23:26:58) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 10:10pmno, its ok, i get all that i need from my gf thanks :D
(23:27:03) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 10:17pmtrue..they're good for that =P
but so are friends (and exes that you dont hate)
(23:27:09) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 10:28pmyeah, you're right! you said it, not me "exes you don't hate" :D
(23:27:14) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 10:32pmyou hate me now?
(23:27:21) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 10:32pmi guess that'd explain why i never heard a word from you after we broke up...thanks for
explaining it..
(23:27:26) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 10:35pmhate is such a strong and hurtful word. i just repeated what you said! :D
(23:27:31) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 10:36pmso what then?
(23:27:36) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 10:38pmall this hostility and anger! i thought facebook was an avenue for friends :D
(23:27:41) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 10:40pmlol you know i dont get angry easily! maybe a tiny bit defensive at times...and its hard to
know exactly what people are thinking/feeling online
(23:27:47) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 10:40pmand isnt it funny how this' the ONLY avenue you've actually talked to me on in 2 yrs
(23:27:51) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 10:44pmmm funny? i dont think funny is the operative word. anyone looking at the amount of wall
posts might have better insights as to why communication between us dropped out...:D
(23:27:56) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 10:50pmthat's ok! you'll catch up sooner or later, it'll be enlightening! i promise!
(23:28:02) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 11:03pmlol dude, i've been wondering why the communcation dropped just after since we actually
broke up! then again, i can't say i do remember much about the end of the fling
(23:28:10) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 11:09pm thats ok! the two of us don't really have to go through that EXHAUSTING chore of
reminiscing and remembering. best of luck :)
(23:28:16) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 11:18pmso if the relationship didnt work the communication can never work..righto jase
well i hope you're not as shitty as you were before. enjoy missing your girl. have a fun life.
(23:28:21) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 11:25pmI am having the funnest life! .. but then again, probably you would have known that by now
;) whoops! did I? little ole me slip out that you might have been stalking me? sorry... have a fun life
too! :D
(23:32:19) neurologik Finding Forever: Manda Bottomley (Australia) wrote
at 11:30pmi haven't, but you know i could quite easily.
(23:34:17) neurologik Finding Forever: Jason Lagaac (no network) wrote
at 11:34pmYay! a direct quote as evidence in case I want to file a restraining order?! :D
.....hmmm sneaky stalker deleted the rest from her wall, but thats not all. here's the personal messages that went on too. (oooohhh)
manda to jason message 1: we didnt end on such a horrible note...why be such a bitch to me now?
jason's reply to manda 1:look, i have moved on and suddenly you try and come barging into my life in the rudest way possible. how do you expect me to react to emails about stalking threats?! has it occurred to you that I just wanted to be left alone? I've moved on and I hope you have too, why do you need a detail description about my life? Do you wanna make a comparison? You said it yourself that I was shitty. Now I dont think you need more shitty people in your life... isnt it just common sense?
I add you ontofacebook and I tried to be the bigger person and just accept it, andthen you attack my public wall? you expect me just to sit here and donothing?! give me a break...
manda's reply back: wow! dude!!
iadded you mainly just caus i wanted to say hi! i was bored, saw yourname and decided to add you. i was just interested in how you've beenand what you've been up to.
stalking? yeah..right! why on earthwould i even bother? you've obviously completely forgotten what i'mlike it you seriously think i would even consider ACTUALLY stalkinganyone..let alone you.
yes, i've moved on, but that doesnt stopme from wanting to say hi to some people from my past. i mustn't haveseen your attempts to say "manda..get lost" but thanks a lot for theblatant exclamation! i dont have anything against you, but apparentlythe feeling's not mutual..no one told me that before, but you didnthave to attack me!
if you really want, we can delete those posts and just go back to eachother's pasts.
10:42 PM
just in future, try not to take things out so much on people youhavent talked to in a while! they generally dont know what's happeningand dont expect things like this.
bye
jason's final reply: yeah, ok. so that explains all the weird emails and the rudeness on facebook. got it, thanks. bye.
-that's all i got (for now) sorry for the long rambling post, but it needed to be said. and before i go, can i just say: AREN'T STALKERS THE CREEPIEST???!!! Thoughts?
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